I always tried not to hurt people with words, and follow Jesus example and say only loving words to others, that encourage and edify and build others up. As I was hurt by words from a relative that sadly cruelly and mentally and verbally abused me with words for years.  We should always say only loving words to others like Jesus and speak well of others and praise them much.  As it says in scripture, there is life and death in the tongue an in the words we speak to each other.

 

Jesus speaks only what He hears His Father say, He says.  He speaks only loving words, that encourage, edify and build others up. In scripture it tells us in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 " Therefore encourage one another.  Build up one another.  Always say loving and edifying words like Jesus and never hurt others with words By Julie Ralphs